How is the weather there? We use chat to connect with others in a relaxed and more aware of how to interact with those who do not know, we can learn a lot about our level of confidence, a sense of privacy and security are our opinions. Small talk does not replace a deeper relationship - is the first step towards the construction of them. Let's start by being fully present and talk about what is right in front of us - the time, your customers a new car, the flowers close, the walls are pictures of the interviewer's office.
Good conversation follows:
* consciousness. Have you noticed that new haircut, office chairs, or tie? You can show others that you are careful to note the subtle changes.
* Kindness. You could just smile and nod, but benign to comment or ask a question shows that you are really interested in taking the lead in conversation.
* The desire to connect. It's easy to go about our lives without telling others in all sorts significantly. By continuing to participate in a conversation with another light, indicating their interest in getting to know them better. Sensitivity: Try building a bridge, not a wall. Ask questions and look for clues that let you know how the other person is receiving your comments.
Be aware of your ability to use chat to communicate with others and be aware of how you can use your words to develop deeper relationships and more meaningful. Besides the weather, there are thousands of items you can use to create this bridge. Keep it light, be aware and have fun in your conversations, and before you know it, you'll be one of those described as someone who "never met a stranger."
